I am not at fault for things outside of my control that my husband goes through and I need to remember when he's talking to me about what's going on with him, that he is just talking to me, and knows it's not my fault either, nor has he ever made me feel like it's my fault. He's simply telling me because he wants to share it with me because I'm his partner, and never to blame me. And I'm sure he gets tired of constantly telling me it's not my fault, but he never lets it get to him.